no technology

turn off your phone for an hour and watch what happens to your hands. they'll reach for it. unconsciously, repeatedly, like a phantom limb. that twitch tells you everything you need to know about your relationship with technology.

you're not using it -- it's using you

every app on your phone was designed by teams of engineers whose entire job is to make you unable to put it down. the notifications, the infinite scroll, the variable reward schedules -- these are addiction mechanics borrowed from slot machines. and they work.

you probably check your phone 80-100 times a day. you probably can't eat a meal without looking at a screen. you probably can't sit in silence for five minutes without feeling an overwhelming urge to "check something."

that's not a tool. that's a dependency.

the one-week challenge

go at least seven days without technology. no internet. no phone. no TV. no social media. nothing with a screen.

yes, this sounds extreme. yes, people will think you're insane. yes, you'll need to plan ahead for communication and logistics. that's part of the exercise.

what happens during those seven days:

day 1-2: anxiety, boredom, restlessness. your brain screaming for stimulation
day 3-4: you start noticing things. the world around you. your own thoughts. time moves differently
day 5-7: clarity. presence. a strange calm that feels foreign because you haven't experienced it since childhood

what you'll learn

you'll learn what your mind does when it's not being constantly fed. you'll learn which of your "needs" are actually needs and which are just habits. you'll learn that boredom is not an emergency.

most importantly, you'll come back to technology as a conscious user instead of an unconscious addict. you'll pick up your phone on purpose, not on autopilot.

start planning

pick your week. tell the people who need to know. get a paper map, an alarm clock, and a physical book. then unplug and find out who you are without a screen in your face.

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