measure your personality

you don't know yourself as well as you think
ask anyone to describe themselves and they'll give you a curated highlight reel filtered through years of self-serving bias. "i'm pretty laid back." "i'm a hard worker." "i'm a good listener." maybe. but probably not as much as you think. our self-perception is famously inaccurate because the same brain that's doing the perceiving is the one being perceived. it's like asking a defendant to be their own judge.
why personality tests are useful (despite the skeptics)
personality assessments like the myers-briggs type indicator (MBTI), the HEXACO model, or the big five aren't perfect. no psychological instrument is. but they provide a structured framework for examining tendencies you might otherwise never question. they hold up a mirror with categories and dimensions that force you to confront aspects of yourself you've been glossing over.
the HEXACO model, in particular, measures six dimensions: honesty-humility, emotionality, extraversion, agreeableness, conscientiousness, and openness to experience. seeing where you fall on each spectrum — especially the extremes — reveals your natural strengths and the areas where you're likely to struggle.
how to actually benefit from the results
don't just take the test and file away your result as a personality horoscope. dig into what each dimension means practically. if you score low on conscientiousness, you now know that you need external systems and accountability to get things done — relying on internal motivation alone will fail you. if you score high on emotionality, you know that stress management needs to be a core part of your daily routine, not an afterthought.
take the test today
find a reputable version of the HEXACO or big five assessment online — many are free and take under thirty minutes. take it honestly, answering as you actually are, not as you wish you were. then sit with the results. where did they confirm what you already knew? where did they surprise you? those surprises are where the real growth opportunities live.
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