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evolve or die

April 7, 20252 min read
evolve or die

pull up a photo of yourself from 5 years ago. you look different. now ask yourself: do you think differently? because if the answer is no, you have a serious problem.

the stagnation test

take inventory. your opinions on politics, relationships, career, health, happiness — how many of them have genuinely evolved in the past 5-10 years?

if the answer is "most of them are the same," that's not consistency. that's stagnation. the world changed dramatically in that time. if your thinking didn't change with it, you're operating on outdated software.

why people stop evolving

evolution requires discomfort. you have to encounter ideas that challenge your existing beliefs, sit with the tension, and sometimes admit you were wrong. most people would rather die than admit they were wrong about something fundamental.

so they build walls. they curate information feeds that confirm what they already believe. they surround themselves with people who think like them. they stop reading, stop exploring, stop questioning.

it feels safe. it's actually the most dangerous thing you can do.

adaptability is the ultimate skill

the world doesn't reward the strongest or the smartest. it rewards the most adaptable. every major disruption — technological, economic, social — punishes rigidity and rewards flexibility.

the person who can update their mental models, learn new skills, and let go of outdated beliefs will thrive in any environment. the person who clings to "how things have always been" will be left behind.

the evolution audit

sit down and honestly evaluate:

  • what opinions have you changed in the last 5 years?
  • what new skills have you developed?
  • what beliefs have you abandoned?
  • what perspectives have you adopted that younger-you would disagree with?

if the list is short, it's time to deliberately seek discomfort. read things you disagree with. talk to people outside your bubble. try things that scare you.

evolve or get left behind. there is no standing still.

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