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lift heavy ass weights

June 6, 20252 min read
lift heavy ass weights

you've been doing bicep curls and leg extensions for months, maybe years. you look roughly the same. you feel roughly the same. the machines at the gym have become expensive chairs where you sit and scroll your phone between sets.

it's time to pick up something heavy.

why compound lifts change everything

compound exercises work multiple muscle groups and joints simultaneously. a squat doesn't just work your quads - it hits your glutes, hamstrings, core, and lower back. a deadlift engages nearly every muscle in your body. a bench press works your chest, shoulders, and triceps all at once.

this matters for three reasons:

efficiency - why spend 45 minutes isolating individual muscles when you can train your entire body in the same time with compound movements?

functional strength - real life doesn't ask you to curl things. it asks you to pick things up off the floor, push heavy objects, and carry loads. compound lifts build the kind of strength you actually use.

hormonal response - heavy compound lifts trigger significantly greater testosterone and growth hormone release than isolation exercises. this accelerates muscle growth, fat loss, and recovery.

the big five

if you do nothing else, build your program around these five movements:

  • squat - the king of lower body exercises. nothing builds legs and core like heavy squats
  • deadlift - picks heavy things off the ground. works everything from your grip to your traps to your hamstrings
  • bench press - the foundational upper body push movement
  • overhead press - builds shoulders and core stability like nothing else
  • barbell row - the pulling counterpart to the bench press, building a strong back

the progressive overload principle

the secret to getting stronger is simple: gradually increase the weight over time. add 5 pounds to your squat every week. add 2.5 pounds to your press. small increments, consistently applied, produce dramatic results over months.

you don't need complicated periodization programs or fancy techniques. you need a barbell, the big five, and the discipline to add a little weight each session.

the transformation nobody talks about

heavy lifting changes more than your body. something shifts psychologically when you deadlift twice your bodyweight off the floor. you walk differently. you carry yourself differently. problems that used to feel crushing seem more manageable because you know what actual heavy weight feels like.

strength training is the most reliable confidence-builder on earth. not because of how it makes you look - because of what it proves you can do.

get under a bar this week. lift something heavy. then lift something heavier next week. repeat forever.

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